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How to say NO to things you don't want to do
The Holiday Edition. Five simple steps to a holiday season without the family drama, guilt or people-pleasing.
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Imagine this
A holiday season where you don't referee your dad and your brother
Where Grandma's comments roll right off you. Where you can say no to the two-hour drive to the dreaded family buffet, and still feel full of love for everyone.
Sounds impossible? I used to think so too. After 40 years of people-pleasing, I learned to say no without the drama. In this free guide I'll show you how.
What's inside
Five steps. Zero guilt.
1
How to feel the difference between a real yes and a guilty yes
2
The "inner bad girl" exercise that shows you what you actually want
3
How to turn your bad girl wish list into real-life yeses and nos that fix the problem
4
Word-for-word phrases for saying no, kindly and firmly
5
Why silence is your secret weapon (and how to use it at the dinner table)
Hi, I'm Jacquie.
I spent 40 years trying to keep everyone happy
It made me miserable. Now I help women over 40 stop people-pleasing and start living on their own terms. Bold, brave and breaking the rules.
It's free